I'm staring at My screen with at a loss as to what to write. It's not really writer's block as much as the topic at hand has been covered so many times, so many ways, I feel like I might be beating a dead horse with this post. However, with all the other horrible things in the news, there may be some of you unaware of what's going on in the internet red-light district. FOSTA/SESTA. "But Holly," you say, "that's to stop sex traffickers. Sex trafficking is bad." Yes, anonymous

A lot of potentials get labeled as "timewasters", which is frustrating to the Domme, and to the potential to submissive as well. I know this for in addition to My own experience, I hear this endlessly from other Dommes. Frequently, We are approached by individuals who claim they want to serve but are broke. Even if She isn't a FinDomme, this is a poor way to make an approach! By telling Her you can't pay Her what She is worth, you are telling Her that She is "less than". This

I've not been a ProDomme for that long, but a sad trend I've already noticed is the degradation of non-consenting and unaware parties, specifically wives and girlfriends. The level of malice directed towards them, and the acts I've heard suggested they be submitted to, vary from heinous to criminal. I've observed this behavior both from peacocking InstaDommes attempting to display their superiority and, sadly, from submissives. In BDSM, consent is key. Without consent, there

Sex education can be confusing enough on it's own. Enter the world of BDSM and one can become completely lost in the leather, whips, and chains. Of all the dangers in our dark and intimidating culture, psychological play is often overlooked as it causes no physical damage, and yet it requires training like any other tool we use. This type of play is tricky to discuss as it is highly personal and complex; it varies in width and breadth as well as by individual. Despite this, t

The first time I engaged in findom I didn't know it was findom. I was primarily a fetish seller at the time, and I'd met a man who wanted to buy a pair of My panties. When I arrived at the cafe I was somewhat surprised to find that not only did he want to buy Me a drink and give Me more than double the arranged tribute, but that he didn't want the panties at all--he wanted the shame of giving Me everything for nothing while I demeaned him. And he wanted to meet Me again the f