A few weeks ago, as My husband and I were sitting around talking about kinky shit, he told Me something that somewhat shocked Me--he enjoys inflicting nipple torture on others. It wasn't the act that surprised Me, I have no issue with it; it was that in all Our time together he had not once made any sort of indication that that was something he might enjoy. When he again mentioned a new kink more recently, I told him that I felt he wasn't communicating enough. Now, on occasi

I've been venturing out into the city a bit more lately and going to events. It's great to meet new people, discuss common kinks, talk shop, and find new resources. Frequently at events like these (which is actually the point of the event) there is play, specifically "Pickup Play" or play where you don't know the other party. This can be fun as you get immediate gratification of sceneing during that rush of new energy after meeting someone, rather than the days or weeks of gr