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Dommes are often told that They don’t have a real job. They’re doing this for fun, and if They aren’t then They’re fakes. Yes, it is fun--shouldn't We enjoy what We do? Since I started being a Pro, I have been so satisfied! Dominating fulfills many of My mental and emotional needs, from creativity and helping people, to critical thinking and solving complex problems. I love My work even with all the hardships My industry has faced lately. However, it is also work; there's a l