If you're just starting out in the BDSM scene or as a bottom/submissive/slave, you may not be sure where to start. You have these desires, but are not sure how to realize them. You may have a significant other, but are afraid to tell them. You may be unpaired and are unsure where to start looking for someone to pinch your nipples, slap your ass, and then set you on fire...that sort of thing isn't in the yellow pages. So you take to the internet and start wading through the se

After attending several events as of late, both conventions and play parties, I thought I would bestow some wisdom upon those of you who haven't ever been to such events. Specifically, a kink convention. Now, there are many different aspects to kink conventions. I find it best to go in with a goal in mind though you may find that you achieve other benefits along the way. To have the most luck achieving your goal, it helps to have a plan before attending the convention. Take a