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FAQ

HOW MAY I ADDRESS YOU?

Goddess, Mistress, or Miss Holly

I'M NEW AND HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING LIKE THIS BEFORE. IS THAT OKAY?

Definitely! I welcome all experience levels and always work within your realm of comfort.

DOES THIS HAVE TO HURT OR BE SCARY?

Of course not! Scenes don't have to involve any pain, and they don't have to be scary. It is possible to have a slow and caring scene.

IS IT CLEAN/SAFE/DISCREET?

Yes, I take the health, safety, and privacy of my clients very seriously. I have studied up on the spread of infectious diseases and how to properly clean and sterilize different surfaces with medical-grade cleaners, I clean all My toys and tools between clients, stay up to date on the latest kink education, and respect your privacy like I expect you to respect Mine.

DO YOU DO NUDE OR TOPLESS SESSIONS?

No. I fall into the category of Clothed Female Nude Male or CFNM. My body is My own and I choose who I share it with. If you ask Me to disrobe during a scene I will immediately end the session and you will not be refunded.

CAN I SERVE YOU ON A PERSONAL LEVEL?

No. I do not invite clients into My home or ask them for body worship. Smart clients know what to do if they wish to spend more time with Me.

CAN I BRING MY OWN CLOTHES OR TOYS?

Of course! I'm happy to use the items you have. You'll be more at ease, and it cuts down on cleaning for Me to do later.

CAN YOU ACCOMMODATE A LATEX ALLERGY?

Yes, I can. Please let Me know when booking a session so that I can adequately prepare.

WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A “SCENE” AND A “SESSION”?

A "session" is the appointment time we’ve set, from the time I arrive till the time I leave. A “scene” is the actual playtime in which we engage in kinky behavior.

WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LIFESTYLE AND PROFESSIONAL?

Lifestyle is engaging in kink and BDSM behavior in everyday life as a matter of course. Professional is someone who does it as a job and may or may not engage in it in their personal lives.

HOW IS FETISH DIFFERENT FROM BDSM?

Fetish is an activity or attraction to an object that a person needs in order to have fulfillment. BDSM does not have to revolve around any sort of fetish or sex, but is typically seen that way as they can go hand in hand.

I HAVE A FETISH BUT I AM NOT INTO BDSM. CAN I COME PLAY?

Yes, I engage with pure fetishists too. All are welcome!

WHAT’S YOUR AVAILABILITY?

Typically nights and weekends, but I do have some daytime availability. I schedule on a first come, first serve basis. Check my current hours here.

I WILL BE TRAVELING TO YOUR AREA AND WOULD LIKE TO SESSION WITH YOU. HOW DO I ARRANGE THIS?

Through the same channels as everyone else. Please make sure you’re giving Me advance notice as it takes time to negotiate and plan. I do not do same day sessions and I very well may already have plans. If you wish to session with me outside of my hours, my rate will be double.

WILL YOU SUBMIT TO ME?

No.

WHAT IF I CAN’T AFFORD YOUR TRIBUTE?

Well, that’s too bad for you. If you feel that you have something worthy to barter for a portion of your session fee, state it when booking your session. Things I do not want or need are: cleaning of My home or dungeon; website maintenance; or sexual servitude. 

BUT CAN'T I GET A DISCOUNT?

SHOULD I BRING A GIFT OR TIP?

That’s always appreciated, but not required. Should you enjoy your session and wish to show your gratitude, feel free to give additional tribute, buy Me a gift off My wishlist, or leave Me a positive review!

DO YOU MIND IF I HAVE A TOKE OR A DRINK BEFORE SEEING YOU?

Yes, I do mind! I will not engage in a session with someone who is high or drunk. Should I arrive and you are under the influence, I will leave and consider it a cancellation. If you are nervous about our session and that is why you would like to have a bit of “extra courage” please let Me know so that I may alleviate any fears and have this be a pleasant experience for you.

HOW CAN I PREPARE FOR MY SESSION?

Cleanliness is next to godliness and you want to your Goddess to be next to you. Take a shower, brush your teeth, and wear clean clothes.

Unfortunately, altruism doesn't pay the bills. I do not offer military discounts, student discounts, senior discounts, or any other sort of discount.

WHAT'S A FIRST SESSION LIKE?

For incall, you are to call Me two hours prior to our session. No call, no session. You will go to the predetermined location a few minutes (no more than 15 minutes) prior to our session time and call or text Me once you are there. You will then be given the address to the dungeon if it is your first visit, and the okay to proceed to the dungeon location.

You will arrive in street clothes, freshly groomed, and on time. If you are not up to My standards for required hygiene, you will be taking a shower. Any delay on your part due to lack of punctuality or grooming will cut into your playtime. Should you find yourself in the area very early, you may call to let me know on the offhand chance I may be able to take you earlier. Do not show up at my location more than 5 minutes before our scheduled session time; to do so is very disrespectful to Me and others. There may be someone with a previous appointment who is leaving or I may be getting ready. Arriving early does not mean you will get to start earlier.

 

Once inside, we will go over topics such as how you're feeling, types of play you wish to engage in, furniture you have interest in using, and what limits you have. This is your last chance to add anything before we start playing as there is no negotiation mid-scene. You will then have an opportunity to change if needed. 
 

From there I will set up My tools and toys in the area which we will scene and we will commence playing. I prefer to use the stoplight system (red means stop, yellow means slow down, green means go!) as a safeword, and you can safeword at any time, however, you cannot ask for additional activities that we did not previously discuss. That is for your protection as well as mine. I will let you know when the scene is over, though you can always call it sooner (this is when the "clock" ends).


Post-scene we'll sit and talk about how you felt the scene went, kinks or techniques you did or did not like, what you might want to try next time, and things in general that you'd like Me to know. I let you decompress as needed to avoid being jarred by reality (I always make sure you're safe and stable before your departure) and give you a chance to clean yourself up. You're always allowed to contact Me post-scene if needed for additional talk aftercare.

If you have a fear of dogs or an allergy to animal dander, please let Me know! At My location there is a canine resident, though Dungeon Dog lives upstairs and will not be present during any scenes.

 

 

 

For outcall, you are to call Me two hours prior to our session or one hour before I depart to your location, whichever comes first (I will let you know beforehand). No call, no session.

When I arrive you will greet Me at the door. I come inside, sit down and we talk about how you're feeling (tired, nervous, sore) as we all vary in how we feel from day today and you might not be up for the intense session you originally had planned. We'll go over topics we've previously discussed on the phone such as the type of play we do want to engage in, if there's any areas I need to avoid (injuries, sensitive areas, places you don't want visible marks), and what sort of positions you do or do not want to be in (you might have a bum shoulder and can't handle restraints or saw a cool scene you'd like to recreate). This is your last chance to add anything before we start playing as there is no negotiation mid-scene.


From there I will set up My tools and toys in the area which we will scene as you get yourself prepared in whatever fashion that may be, and we will commence the scene. I prefer to use the stoplight system (red means stop, yellow means slow down, green means go!) as a safeword, and you can safeword at any time, however, you cannot ask for additional activities that we did not previously discuss. That is for your protection as well as mine. I will let you know when the scene is over, though you can always call it sooner.

Post-scene we'll sit and talk about how you felt the scene went, kinks or techniques you did or did not like, what you might want to try next time, and things in general that you'd like Me to know. I let you decompress as needed to avoid being jarred at My departure. I always make sure you're safe and stable before I leave. You're also allowed to contact Me post-scene if needed for additional talk aftercare.

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