April 20, 2019

On a few occasions I've been asked by potential clients about My availability. This typically happens while we're on the phone during their initial phone call negotiating and discussing their future session. A lot of these guys do want to come see Me, but are unsure as...

December 8, 2018

I recently attended an up and coming foot fetish party that's nationally known, but just starting up in Chicago, Footnight. I've been to foot fetish parties before, but in more of a BDSM context, so this was slightly different as it was a fetish event for hobbyists rat...

June 30, 2018

If you're just starting out in the BDSM scene or as a bottom/submissive/slave, you may not be sure where to start. You have these desires, but are not sure how to realize them. You may have a significant other, but are afraid to tell them. You may be unpaired and are u...

May 5, 2018

I've been venturing out into the city a bit more lately and going to events. It's great to meet new people, discuss common kinks, talk shop, and find new resources. Frequently at events like these (which is actually the point of the event) there is play, specifically "...

April 21, 2018

Many mistakes are made when submissives first contact a Domme. The biggest mistake seems to be not following directions, which means this post may fall on deaf ears. However, I will make an attempt anyway. 

When addressing Her, refer to Her by Her preferred ti...

March 30, 2018

I'm staring at My screen with at a loss as to what to write. It's not really writer's block as much as the topic at hand has been covered so many times, so many ways, I feel like I might be beating a dead horse with this post. However, with all the other horrible thing...

March 24, 2018

A lot of potentials get labeled as "timewasters", which is frustrating to the Domme, and to the potential to submissive as well. I know this for in addition to My own experience, I hear this endlessly from other Dommes. Frequently, We are approached by individuals who...

January 25, 2018

I remember when I first got an email account. I won't say what age I was, but I will say I was pretty excited to get my first electronic mail that wasn't a newsletter. I'd gotten physical letters through the post, but electronic mail made Me feel like a real grownup, a...

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