September 7, 2018

‪I was pleasantly surprised last night that My newest guest recognized the portrait on the wall--Ms Susanne D’Arcy. Unfortunately, I never got to meet this great woman as She passed away in 2010, long before I started on this path. Still, I think of Her often as She wa...

August 16, 2018

The "summer slowdown" is over and the parents are coming out to play. As the kids are going back to school, I'm also taking this time to educate Myself. I'm a "lifelong learner" or "perpetual student". Currently, I am enrolled in Michelle Lacy's series on Pro Dominatio...

June 30, 2018

If you're just starting out in the BDSM scene or as a bottom/submissive/slave, you may not be sure where to start. You have these desires, but are not sure how to realize them. You may have a significant other, but are afraid to tell them. You may be unpaired and are u...

May 5, 2018

I've been venturing out into the city a bit more lately and going to events. It's great to meet new people, discuss common kinks, talk shop, and find new resources. Frequently at events like these (which is actually the point of the event) there is play, specifically "...

April 21, 2018

Many mistakes are made when submissives first contact a Domme. The biggest mistake seems to be not following directions, which means this post may fall on deaf ears. However, I will make an attempt anyway. 

When addressing Her, refer to Her by Her preferred ti...

April 8, 2018

Dommes are often told that They don’t have a real job. They’re doing this for fun, and if They aren’t then They’re fakes. Yes, it is fun--shouldn't We enjoy what We do? Since I started being a Pro, I have been so satisfied! Dominating fulfills many of My mental and emo...

March 24, 2018

A lot of potentials get labeled as "timewasters", which is frustrating to the Domme, and to the potential to submissive as well. I know this for in addition to My own experience, I hear this endlessly from other Dommes. Frequently, We are approached by individuals who...

March 13, 2018

I've not been a ProDomme for that long, but a sad trend I've already noticed is the degradation of non-consenting and unaware parties, specifically wives and girlfriends. The level of malice directed towards them, and the acts I've heard suggested they be submitted to,...

March 1, 2018

The first time I engaged in findom I didn't know it was findom. I was primarily a fetish seller at the time, and I'd met a man who wanted to buy a pair of My panties. When I arrived at the cafe I was somewhat surprised to find that not only did he want to buy Me a drin...

February 5, 2018

Most people don't think about it, but ProDommes are people (*gasp* I know!). We have families, friends, and lovers. Given the nature of what We do and the social stigma associated with it, We tend to be selective about whom We tell exactly what it is Our profession is....

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